"Have to Do" vs. "Get to Do"

I was feeling a little grouchy the other day, mumbling to myself about all the things I had to do. Too many meetings, too much commuting, too much preparation needed for an upcoming class---too much of everything! But when I got back from my morning walk, I remembered something really important. I had heard this some years ago, but had a tendency to forget about it. So I tried this:

•  I have to go to too many meetings vs. I get to go to meetings about issues and organizations I care about.

• I have to do too much commuting vs. I get to commute and then can listen to books on CD or take the train and read, write, or just stare out the window.

• I have too much preparation to do for class vs. I get to prepare for a class that I enjoy teaching and have the opportunity to share my knowledge and skills.

Kind of turns your head around, doesn't it?

This week, try making a list of those things you have to do. Then re-write the list, substituting, get to do and notice how you feel.

Share your experience below.

Take good care!

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